When you just meet someone, an overexcitement, a kind of rush in happiness, fascination and feeling arises that how perfect this person is, without even knowing them completely and we get lure towards that person. Ignoring their red flags we just want them then and now at any cost because an impulsive feeling of attraction arouses toward the person and we misname it as love but it’s not. But it’s important for one to know the whole clash of arguments related to infatuation vs love and how completely different they are.

An extreme level of attraction you may call it, the stage is very high as compared to crush. The Infatuation may last for weeks, few months and sometimes to years also. There’s another level of perfection in the image we create of that person in our mind and there’s a pinnacle of expectation we create within just a short period of time.

Although, if we see the love it’s completely different as it bring more calmness, kind of stability in our individuality and it all happen when you get to know the person completely here you are not expecting anything superficially and there’s not any shallow reason finding the perfection on the other person, you just accept the person the way he/she is. Love is just selfless love and without any manipulative reasons.

What are the Signs of infatuation.

There can be a number of variations on the basis of which you might get completely aware of the difference between infatuation vs love.

• You Try To Be The person who you are not, but suddenly you try to portray yourself the way they like.
• Always Wondering in the thoughts of a person, of whom you are infatuated.
• You Just Hop Over things. You don’t try to stay and to behold and try to get into each other in a better way. You just want that end, so you hop.
• You’re Physically attracted a lot and all the time you try to get to know them a little more in their physical aspect.

Selfless love is what you need in a relationship.

• There’s no or very little emotional talk, you do with each other and if one does the infatuated one is not at all interested in their emotional aspect.
• Within a month, you overly plan being with them like your children’s job and married life aspect and a lot.
• There’s just attraction and stuff related to attraction, it may be lust and more of it.
• More often it’s extreme from one side and the other person may be just pretends to be like in love with you because of “your pleased behavior”
• Everything is so perfect, it is literally a big red ag which is very much evident in infatuation because you don’t see their flaws and you just ignore it because you think it’s okay to be like that.
• You don’t know that person on an individual basis but you are just okay with the fact. And you don’t even want to know cause you think their social image is the one which you love a lot so on an individual basis they must be matching the aura of any ideal.
• Overjoyed quickly by any of their response and arrival of sudden thought, “the one”.
• There’s no deep conversation and even support too.

Infatuation vs love.

When you start to be in love with a person, there’s a period basically that honeymoon period which is the period of the infatuation between both of you and that’s lovely too. But after that if you still keep that driven approach into your relationship and now you have started to look at that relationship from the emotional connection and including many important facets of life, the infatuation period and period after that won’t harm your relationship because you are in love.

Infatuation doesn’t have the potential to keep the person determined and committed towards each other but love does have the potential and power to take the stand for your relationship even when your rainbow of emotions don’t allow you to be in the relationship.

As I said, Infatuation can last from weeks to maximum till 2 to 3 years if it’s not a long-distance relationship. If we see what love is and what are the areas and points where infatuation can’t permeate into one’s heart.

Love empowers you, where as infatuation you think, don’t know what the other person will take it as and how they think of you but in love you just involve that person into your life without a second thought and they become your support system.

Love is a more stable kind of feeling which will not put you in the spot of rush or haste, whereas infatuation does the exact opposite.

You plan for the future but after a certain time in your relationship, when you have that proper idea that you can spend your life with them, and it’s so practical but not like reel word.

Love Doesn’t bring any expectations but the infatuation has and when your expectations don’t match your mental level image, your attraction starts to fade away towards the person. You observe a person completely in a holistic way because here your need is not just the physical thing, here you go beyond it the emotional bonding and their views too on different aspects of things which are important to you.