The exceptional attribute of a seed is that it speaks, not just about birth but also about survival. It emphasizes the internal spirit center. Seed also signifies new life. Having so many valuable features, it also contradicts its own value by the fact that no matter how powerful the seed is, it’ll only grow to its full potential only when it’s put in the right fertile place. Marking the fact that it gets affected by its surrounding environment. I’m not writing about a seed that’s in the soil. I’m writing about a seed that’s in your mind i.e., the curse of pessimistic behavior. Yes, it’s your thoughts. Every thought is a seed.
Is being pessimistic an insult about the future.
Ask yourself, is your mind a fertile place for your thoughts to grow? Is your seed surviving? Is it growing to bear good fruits?
I, being a daughter of a farmer, have seen my father making the ground fertile before he even think of sowing seeds. Later, he checks the quality and quantity of seeds that he require for his land. Likewise, your brain should become a fertile ground and only then the seeds (thoughts) can be the best out of it.
Our body works in a coordinated manner. Every organ works in coordination with other organ. Your brain is the crown but it also get affected if other organ do not coordinate with it. For example, your mouth. If you always speak negative words, curse full words, pessimistic words, automatically the data will get stored in your brain and it does affect your thoughts. No doubt thoughts come from brain but they are influenced by other organs too.
Therefore, there’s a necessity to check on organs such as eyes, ear and mouth especially so that they don’t pollute your fertile ground.
How can I stop being pessimistic?
Being pessimistic can be one of the most silent yet traumatic traits one can cradle in their mind.
- Stop speaking pessimistic words over your own life.
I’m a curse to my parents. I’m a failure, I’m not worthy of anything, I will never succeed in what I do, I’m worst, I’m useless, I’m born to perish, I’ll never have a good future. I have no hopes for my next day. My dream will not come true, I’m born just to die, I’m accepted by none, I don’t deserve any good thing.
Stop saying this to yourself. You’re not just saying it but making it get stored in your mind and thus destroying the fertile brain to come up with the best thoughts. Arise at least now and realize this. Speak the best over your life. Don’t curse your own life with your own mouth. God did not create you so wonderfully to just perish you. Your life isn’t an accident. It’s purposeful.
Can you imagine a baby that’s being formed in the mother’s womb? Just one DNA mismatch would have destroyed your organ and organ system. But look, you’re beautifully made and brought into this world. Your life is worthy of having happiness, peace, joy etc. Stop speaking ugly words about your own self.
Look at your future and say , you’ll become all you are created to be. You’ll live the best life. This makes your brain store the positive data in your brain and ultimately your thoughts will be directly proportional to it.
2. Stop speaking pessimistic words over others’ lives.
Speaking sinful words or negative words over others’ lives will make them feel drained. One word of appreciation and encouragement will change their lives. On the other hand, your negative opinion over their life will stop them from becoming who they are. Moreover you are not just cursing others lives but also cursing your life. Because what you sow is what you reap.
Those negative words you speak about others will have a greater negative impact on your life. Rather than speaking pessimistic words, speak a blessing. Speak words of encouragement unless they’re not wrong in their actions. If you want to guide another person, guide them genuinely or else don’t go into that matter.
If you can’t help, at least don’t make that person feel helpless for their entire life. If you can’t reach your goal, at least don’t make that person stop from running to his/her destiny.
Lastly, be cautious of what you see and what you listen to as they impact your thoughts. To sum up, the device you always wish to have is the one which has high battery life and the highest price because you know it has got the best features. Same goes with life, if you want your battery to live many years happily and perform the best, upgrade yourself and add the best characters to your life. Have the right boundaries and follow the right principles in life.
“Stop cursing your life with the curse of pessimistic seeds”